Discussion.... Valentine day celebration....

With Valentine Day nearby... Its time to start thinking about ideas for the V-day... I think there types people celebrating v-Day(type means categories of people all over the world) They go as :
1) True Lovers... who wish to tie the knot in the very near future :
Expectation of the opposite sex : Lover should try to meet atleast with a Rose & Romantic Greeting card ( & gift if possible) followed by dinner/lunch if time permits... Best gift is to spend as much time as possible with your date and try to please her/him. possibly make him/her laugh and share some light moments... The expectataion is not much in this case... as the commitment has been shown a long time back.. now the only part remaining is maybe how well one behaves and ofcourse celebrating the day for the name of it!!! Always remember never ask what he/she wants... be the best judge...
2) Passing Affair... couples who dont know what they want... or are just afraid to engage in permanent relationship...:
If celebrating the V-daythis would be a grand affair offcourse... as one would be still trying the to impress each other... and the gifts or the dinner/lunch might not be extravagant but it would something that one might want to make a memorable...
3) Blind Dates... Met over the Internet/phone/mail and decide to meet on this V-day and make it special( They themselves dnt knw wht would happen):
Be Prepared. You never know what might be the outcome. I think have three plans in mind... agree to meet at a neutral place where your plans might not be made to obvious... If have seen each others photos.... try to size up the date... and dress appropriately as per your intiution of the date's likings. dont be too formal.... worst way to spend the V-day. be yourself... will help you avoid a lot of problems later on... ;)
4) Couples to be married and engaged by their families consent...( please refer as arranged marriage) ... :
This is the most tricky part of the relationship... You are engaged to someone that your family decided upon and though your consent is taken( just for formality)... it an odd position to be in... (One of my friends, happens to be in this situation.. and he is the reason for this post!!!) For these couples... I would say... First clear your minds and think... what you want... A typical husband wife relationship of the 1820's or a bit rational and eventful married life... It is you who as decided to marry... and not your parents or relatives... so think of it... you are going to marry a person who has primarily said all the gibberish about yes... we will do as you say... and we will together try to make this marriage a success.. etc. Stop... This is not what you should think or do...You are two people about to embark on a new phase in life!!! Others are just interested in getting you two married and reaping the happiness out of it. so decide... how would you like your partner to feel about you? That he/she has just come from one routine life to another??? where things just happen as clockwork and there has to be signoff from concerned parties before each and every action!!!! naah!!! wake up buddy... The reason for ranting so much about the above is... get your self in the valentine day mood... plan something to show to your partner that you would really care for her/him... give some sign of affection and not the usual I am the boss attitude... some thing do happen only once in life and try to enjoy this... There will be crazy ideas and thoughts shared.... but you decide what you want... by saying freedom is present doesnt mean you have freedom!!! Live in country that gives freedom to its citizens... and then analyze how much freedom do you really get... there are lot of restrictions... marriage would bring them on... so get up and plan and have blast at the first Valentine day wit your to be spouse!!!
5) Just Married couples... :
They are tooo busy to worry about spending the day!!! for them every day is Valentine day... :)
6) Married couples... :
Experience is their guide... but just to be good whatever your problems... dnt split up or fight on this day.... atleast for others celebrating this day :